Results … not for my missing-in-action John Fraser the
blacksmith of St Andrews East, but maybe for two of his other
kids. Per the Presbyterian church register (which gives dates of
birth) John had two daughters, my great-grandmother Catherine
(1833-1914) and Eliza (4 Feb 1839), two sons John (25 Jan 1835) and
Duncan (10 Nov 1837). Those last three kids have also been missing in
action. Quebec censuses and the Drouin Collection have not yielded
anything hopeful. The hunch was—of course—that they left la
belle province. Why not start with Ontario? Their sister
Catherine went to Renfrew in the late 1850s.
First up was Ontario marriages on
Ancestry.ca. The name Duncan is way easier to search for than
Eliza/Elizabeth/Elisabeth/etc but nothing rang any bells there. One,
only ONE, marriage presented itself for an Elizabeth Fraser whose
parents were John and Ann. While her mother was commonly known as
Nancy, it's a nickname for Ann, her baptismal name. Parents' names
and the location look promising although Elizabeth's age was close,
but not exact, for an 1839 year of birth. The Ancestry entry is a
transcription only, not a digital image, so the original
(microfilmed) register must be consulted—more details like place of
marriage and religious affiliation may be forthcoming.
Elizabeth Fraser of Renfrew, born
“in Canada,” age 19, daughter of John & Ann, married
Alexander Gordon of Pakenham, born in Canada, age 25, son of George
Gordon & Isabella Murray, on 30 October 1860 in Renfrew
County;“Ontario, Canada Marriages, 1801-1928,” database,
Ancestry.ca (www.ancestry.ca :
accessed 17 September 2011), Gordon-Fraser marriage (1860); citing
Archives of Ontario microfilm MS 248 reel 14.
Meanwhile, it was time to scour census returns. In 1861 and 1871 the
Gordons lived in Pakenham, Lanark County, which is on the southern
border of Renfrew County. Alexander was a merchant. From 1881 to 1901
they were in the town of Pembroke, Renfrew County; Alexander was a
lumber merchant. In that period, Elizabeth's place of birth was
thrice given as Quebec, once as Ontario. IF she is “mine,” she
was consistently knocking two years off her age. The couple more or
less seemed to follow Highland naming tradition: their first daughter
was Isabella, the second Ann; the first son was George. The name John
(for Elizabeth's father) does not crop up until the fourth son.
Alexander
Gordon was a widower in 1901, so there was no chance to see what
might have been written then as Elizabeth's date of birth. Ontario
deaths on Ancestry.ca brought me:
Elizabeth Gordon, wife of Alexr Gordon, died in
the town of Pembroke on 1 October 1891: age 49+ 8/12;
born in Quebec, Presyterian; cause of death pulmonary consumption
during two years, Dr. W.W. Dickson; “Ontario, Canada Deaths
1869-1938,” digital image, Ancestry.ca (www.ancestry.ca
: accessed 17 September 2011), Elizabeth Gordon, no. 014427 (1891);
Archives of Ontario, MS 935.
Next, the Ontario Cemeteries Finding
Aid and the exceptional Canadian Gravemarker Gallery. The latter with
its on-site photographs is a wonderful and probably under-used
resource. Yes; in Calvin United Church and First Presbyterian Church
Cemetery in Pembroke, Elizabeth is buried along with her husband and
three children. The gravestone does not add to her information, but
thank you Murray Pletsch and all your amazing volunteers!
Another search brought forth hundreds
of cemeteries where the name Fraser occurs, in their Eastern Ontario
section alone—I was looking for Duncan. Maybe I found him:
"In Memory of DUNCAN FRASER Departed this life May [7?] 18[6?]1 AE. 24 YRS." |
The stone is in St Fillan's Cemetery,
Beckwith Township, Lanark County. The location is not far south of Pakenham. If the year is 1861 (what do you think??), his age is spot on with my Duncan. The 1861 census shows him as a farmer with a wife Ann, no children, in a household headed by an elderly McGinnis couple. I will have to look on the microfilm for a following page (not all have survived) that would clarify the household composition. Duncan is also shown as born in Scotland (ditto marks from lines above) so I can't get too hopeful. Newspapers of
nearby Carleton Place or perhaps Arnprior or Renfrew might be available for potential
reference to a young man's premature death. So where is his darn marriage?!
Elizabeth Fraser Gordon's alleged age at the time of
her death leads appropriately to a February birth, but still a couple
of years (1842) off. Pembroke newspapers are calling me for that one. Call me
fanciful, but I like to think Elizabeth Gordon named her fourth
daughter Kate after her sister Catherine who was always known as Kate
in the family.
Baby steps on eggshells. Dare I hope
this is progress? Pembroke cousins, where are you? I'm working my way
through the gravemarker lists and photos, not optimistically, for
their father John who could have died any time from 1838 on.